If you have a problem you can choose to solve it, or sit in a corner. How can you think differently, and become more positive.?
Try to ask the following 5 questions .....
What is not perfect yet?
What is good about this problem?
What am I willing to do to get it
the way I want it?
What am I willing to stop doing
to get what I want it?
How can I rejoice in the process,
while I do what is necessary to get it
I want it?
It's simple questions and if you write down the answers you can in a short time to learn to solve problems. Nobody gets through life with no major problems and now you have the solution.